So this post was in the works in my head but it just never seemed to make it into blogger so I antidated it to keep the flow going ….
Talking of flows , we did not do that very well into the new year, things are a bit ups and downs so I’ve been very busy trying to stay positive (which unfortunately does not come naturally to me but is something I have to work hard at) & keep all the balls from crashing on me ! And so I thought I’d share some stuff as not everyone is aware of the stuff that’s going on and hey if you were wondering why stuff is quiet or why I’m not calling, mailing, updating blogs or inviting you this is why….. but to keep it a bit upbeat I’ll try and list something “UP” with every “Downer” as I’m trying to stay positive …..
Ups : Had a really good 2 weeks christmas holiday and got a lot done on my todo list like sort out DH closet, paint the doors of the boys with magnetpaint (3 layers and I’m doing one more), reorganised our clotheswardrobe so all of our bedlinnen fits in so we could sell our chest of drawers (our bedroom is looking more feng shui and less crowded), gave my mothers bedroom a extreme makeover in 2 days while my stepdad was in Canada and had fun with the boys.
Down: in the last week of the year we found out DH kneeproblem wasn’t going away (it played up again after de makeover)and he needs surgery on the 30th … It’s his meniscus/patella and they also think that his partilage/gristle is damaged due to all the active sports he used to do when he was younger (like basketball, iceskating, judo, wing chung, american football, baseball, body building, jogging) so he’s been in quite some pain since then as the dokters like to pull and bend etc. and he took a wrong turn with his back last weekend due the funny walk he has developed to take the edge off the pain.
Up: We’ve bought a new chair & footstool from ikea
Down : I’ve lost a brandnew redken rough past tube while shopping, I put it on the counter while paying at H&M and forgot to take it with me when I left ….
Up: We bought a couch from IKEA and it was delivered the same day
Down : the couch is damaged so we’re not sitting on it, hoping to hear from IKEA tommorow !
UP : I got my first order for birthday cupcakes and the birthday girl exclaimed they were totally what she wanted 🙂
Down : Just yesterday we received a HUGE bill from the watercompany of 3000 euro, which totally freaked me out, bcause apearantly our meter thinks we own a swimming pool ….. God I sincerely hope this gets sorted because I don’t want to shed any more tears on this than i did from shock….
UP: My 2nd attempt at Red Velvet Cupcakes (I converted the recipe myself this time) and OMG I totally get the addiction ! Great therapy that baking …. see downer above ….
Down: The scrapbooking industry is on it’s ass (pardon the language) over here in the NL the shops are dropping like flies …. this might into an upper but I haven’t found that so far …..we’ll have to wait and see.
UP: I got the custest thank you gifts for my dt in and I can’t wait to see what they think
DOWN: During december I found out I haven’t been working enough hours in a week for the salary I’m being paid. A mistake in my contract and nobody (not even me) ever noticed it, now I have to work 4 more hours …..
UP : I don’t have to pay back the 2 years of overpay
DOWN: I have to work even more hours because my colleague and I weren ever told by my boss to keep up a timesheet that calculates the worked hours in comparison with the holidays we get and if we don’t want to work most of the summer holiday we have to work even more hours a week. I’m working 2 more a week and will probably have to work about a week in the summer holiday.
UP: we were invited to a fun new years party.
DOWN: So I work 25 hours a week now, besides having my own scrapbook store and a family
UP: I rearranged my hours so we only have 1 day we cannot pick up the kids and only have that day to organise whoever can to do it.
DOWN: I’ve gained a bit of weight over the holiday that I lost through all the fly so it’s back on the health regime asap.
UP : We booked our summer holiday and we’re going at the end of april LOL
DOWN: Mom’s nek is still a big problem, she’s getting a new consult from a neurologist
UP : She’s taking the train to come see me and help us out where she can with admin and cleaning up around the house (I’m so grateful for the help bcause with all the hours I’m working now I just don’t have enough time in the day)
DOWN: we had a very emotional Michael over the holidays, try to imagine a little boy who’s already an emotional little kid but x 10 bcause of the holidays. While we’re at xmas dinner eating chicken, which he thought was fish at first, and feeling sorry for the fish he suddenly begins sobbing for 30 minutes about our cat that died 3 years ago … Still with me ? This happens every now and then, he misses her and the bomb exploded during dinner. Then a few days later because I wanted to take his picture and he refused. Now I have to tell you our boys rarely pose for us and I just couln’t get it so I tried bribing, being stern nothing worked and he got really angry and after I put him in the hallway to cool down we had a chat and it turns out he hates being an older brother because he thinks he has to do everything perfect. Which he doesn’t have to but because of his competitive and perfectionistic nature he thinks so and this makes his life harder than it has to be….. Boy this parenting thing is hard !
UP: he’s finally settled into his new class as he was had a hard time adapting to 2 pt teachers & a new teaching method in this grade. Still doing brilliantly at his academic work, above average.
UP: Colin started swimming lessons in december and he’s doing amazing ! 2 x a week is a lot of driving up and down to heemstede but worth it by seeing how well he’s doing.
DOWN: the theatre show we were going to with the kids got cancelled last minute and will not be rescheduled.
UP: The boys loved all their gifts from Sinterklaas and Santa. Fave is their new pj’s, books, underwear and MP4 player with favorite songs and stories (Michael = old rock & house and Colin = sinterklaas & smurf songs).
DOWN: Car repairs costs were way more than we expected, aren’t they always ?
UP: Tradition is that kids get a bit of money for new years from the grandparents but this year we also received a financial gift from my parents, that was so sweet of them and unexpected.
DOWN : I broke a mirror this month ….
UP: Thanks to my mom’s help and Ed being at home to recouperate from his operation in a few weeks, it looks like we could get our taxes for 2007 & 2008 in on time 🙂
Down: I didn’t go iceskating at all …..
UP: the boys did and that was a blast, so cool to see them getting into it !
DOWN: I had a huge fight with my brother on the day before xmas
UP: I read a book this month and plan to get more reading time in as I loved totally sinking into a story
DOWN: I lost a whole sheet of 50 postage stamps …. Bought them, walked to the next store in a shopping mall and lost them ….
UP: I really did make xmas gifts, mini albums for the granparents and my godparents of our latest photoshoot.
DOWN: I’m still mourning over things that happened a long time ago, or 5 years ago and cannot let things go. It’s in my nature I just cannot shrugg things off when they happen, I need to wallow, adjust and then move on, but it’s never ever forgotten ……I think I need therapy, but what kind ?
UP: I received a small payment from the insurance as compensation for my year of pain & weight gain due to the car accident.
DOWN: I have the working mommy syndrome; I feel guilty for not having enough time for the kids, not enough energey for them, for DH, for me…. it’s getting worse every year ….
UP: Had a fab time at a junksale with Daphne and we’re definately doing that again soon !
Uhm I think that’s it for now, enough complaining and I have my fingers crossed for no more setbacks, as I really want to have more fun 2009. You know it actually helps to write it down bcause as I did I found I do have more ups than downs although it didn’t feel like it before ! THANKS for letting me share and if you need to share you know where to find me !!!!